I keep hearing how many great guys are out there, and how there is an abundance of wonderful, caring men that weill accept you. . .but I have yet to find one of my own. I feel your pain, sweetheart. Hang in there.
it seems that all men are assholes and all women are bitches. Men, no matter how nice still wind up being an ass and a female a bitch. It's not finding a nice girl or guy that is hard, it's finding a balance with them that is hard.It seems weight and looks are only important for the first couple months... then you be come comfortable no matter what. It all matters on what you are looking for and what kind of attitude you have of your self... if you feel big or ugly that shows and makes you look the way you feel.
Everyone is sterotypicalised. I agree with the whole men are jerks, and why cant they accept us for who we are, but we do it to. Everyone does it you just don admit to it, I mean i wont date guys that have certain flaws, i mean they aren't big things but still they are there, I also know guys that wont date me because of my flaws.. It is a two way situation we are stuck in.
put everything in one pot, and mix it. sure, how intelligent *sigh*
you need to do something, you cant sit around and complain. i am 32 and only the last year I was able to find out what true love is - everything that was before, fades in the light of today.
anyway..
Be what you want to be given - and dont try to change the other, listen to feelings inside you, how you might WANT to change. for the love of the other person.
its a mental thing. Theres more weak, romantic men out there than all of you can handle. You wont find them in the cheap bars tho.
Think: WHERE would a man you are looking for, go out? quite possibly not in a disco downtown. So, why go there at all ?
you see I am convinced the relationships could be much much easier. And you will find those men you are desperately seeking - but think og the way you look for them... if you dress like a chick, you earn men who love chicks ... nothing more...
I am a full supporter of Big Girls Need Love Too. Thats my motto at least,a dn I found someone that loves me for me and not how pretty I am or how much I weigh. I hope you get to find that kind of love too.
Why can't women use better grammer when they bash an entire group? I ACCEPT people for who they are and even tolerate many who I would otherwise EXCEPT from my tiny sphere of being.
Why can't women who bash an entire group use proper grammar? I, for one, can and do ACCEPT people for themselves and only in rare instances do I EXCEPT individuals from my small, obscure portion of this sphere.
People are jerks! This time around it was just a guy who hurt you! Next time it could be your best girlfriend! People are jerks! Hugs whope things get better.
men.. just don't get it.. beauty is where pretty ends.. and then they end up unhappy with a cheating wife.. because she married him for all the wrong reason... I just don't understand them at all!
I have worked at a strip club and ran strip clubs for over 10 years and I must tell all women. "All men will cheat if given the opportunity." They don't care if the girl is after them for the money. They don't care anything at all who they hurt. They just want some a$%^&!
I have been extremely heart broken in the last few weeks. So, I am very negative. Please, forgive
well i dont think men are assholes. i think men are pigs. i always thought so. i mean i always try to prove to women that i know that there are exceptions by trying to be one, most fo the times i do, couple of times i failed. one of these times i failed, when i apologized i told her: well let me tell you something, i am an asshole like what, once a year? once every two years? thats a record compared to men, men are pigs! and she said: hmm..i see your point, you are right, i forgive you! hahaha! :)
Because fat women have poor attitudes and boring life experiences. Being fat on the outside means you're slothful and fat on the inside. Men are neither of those.
your expectations are too high. Everyone has flaws including you. Everyone feels like shit if they are alone and would rather have someone to hold. That doesnt mean men are jerks, it simply means that you don't have the self-confidence to try to obtain what you want, and probably are willing to settle for any attention given, being it negative or positive. Don't accept what's easy, don't give in to idiots, know what you want, and don't stop until you find it. Self-pitying will satisfy no need, and anger will only bring bitterness. You have to be happy with yourself. If you depend on others for happiness, you get fucked every time. And if you don't like how much you wiegh, no one's going to lose the weight for you, and if you think you are ugly... well that's a tragedy.
The thing is that women do it too. The first thing people look at is how the other person looks at. I know I am guilty of that, so I guess I am a jerk.
why are all of you guys so hopeless life without a man or women isnt that bad it just gives you another reason to hate your self just a little more which if you think about it isnt that bad so just wait for that perfect someone to come along whenever he or she does lofe will go on
I found a women who is a bit overweight but a beautiful person all around and married her. I've never been happier.
I also don't miss dealing with skinny little, snotty, me-me-me-me-I'm so cute-me-me-me, girlie-girls or their brain dead friends.
Women who grow up skinny and cute are spoiled and they rarely develop much of a personality because they just don't have to. They get attention no matter how miserable or boring they are, just because of how they look.
Beyond the looks, there is rarely much there. There has to be something more of substance to deal with the other 23.5 hours of the day.
Then when they get older/heavier, they become very bitter because no one cares about what they say any longer.
My advice is to be who you are and someone will find you who appreciates you.
Perhaps men prefer intelligent women: the kind of women who know the difference between "accept" and "except," or the subtle distinction between "weight" and "weigh."
Or perhaps men prefer women who don't whine or rant about how men are hopeless assholes. For example, Maureen Dowd is slender and attractive, but she's a ranter, and she can't get a date either. She even wrote a book about it (of course, she has the advantage of being able to write a coherent sentence).
Forget about dates and start studying grammar; maybe you can write a bestselling book, too.
It's because of the social pressure put on us for the two genders to be practically always combative. Mags like Maxim and Cosmo push this especially.
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Smoke and Mirrors by Sage Francis
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Smoke and Mirrors
So sophisticated
So cool
I AM.. An illusion specialist turning tricks who could never diss
The one the wake up next to even if it's not the one they went to bed with Breakfast at Tiffany's, skip lunch, make sure the dinner table is candle lit I squish my feet until they crunch, but I'm unable to make these sandals fit I can't just sit I need to MOVE and power walk, because Oprah said it And I won't forget it, she does it during the opening credits I'm so synthetic I like the smell of coke, get it? I powder my nose Power to hoes who pound on a hose while playing in a pound of snow I'm getting snow plowed, I KNOW It's time to f**k a guy now I just applied blush and look surprised but it's the way I plucked my eyebrows Time out, I'm in a tanning booth... reading Danielle Steel And I'm planting banana peels beneath every damn man's heel Waiting for them to fall for my sad trick I stop, drop and kneel With a little touch of magic, I'll let David cop a feel I'm not real, but I've got FEELINGS... except in my nipples because of the breast implants To have my chest enhanced I pant in dresses but never dress in pants A club hopping strobe light honey...addicted to wrinkle cream Sipping on Listerine, Mr. Clean don't like the smell of nicotine
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Its probably your attitude thats putting them off, rather than any appearance "defects" you think you may have. If you get some confidence and look at life in a more fun light, youll meet a guy you can be with.
Dont forget though that true love needs working on, its not always an easy ride, but its always worth it.
And to all those coming out with neanderthal comments about her being fat and ugly, maybe you should look at your self and work on your personality before you end up in a string of fruitless relationships based on sex and mindlessness.
aye lay off the girl already. she's not exactly looking for criticism. its what she thinks. but i agree with the whole learning english thing. so many mistakes in a short little post.
i fucking agree completely. i like this asshole, he knows i like him, i was seeing him for a couple of months... at a party last nite he dingyed me and tried to get into my BEST FRIEND. grr. fair enuf, he isnt interested anymore but does he have a "sensitivity chip missing"??? jeez oh, find some other lassie who isnt as close to me as a sister :-@ She wasnt interested in him anyway. there is some justice left in the world.
not all guys are like that though. i work with a dude whos awesome and totally nice. kind of naive though, seems really innocent.
All men are like that, we have to be models for them,thats so unfair because most of the men in the world are fat and ugly..so why do we have to be so beautiful for them?? youre so right!!
Hmm I don't really agree with you. Although there are some men that think that way, but usually men are attracted to your personality.I don't think men really prefer EXTREMELY skinny girls. Usually girls are more critical than men as far as weight is concerned. May be it's your this attitude that putting you in this position? (Sorry don't want to be mean, but you usually attract the kind of the men that treat you the way that you put yourself out. For example, if you're extremely insecure and constantly complaining about the small defect that you have, you'll most probably end up giving in to a jerk like the one you describe :-P). First work on your confidence and then you'll realize there are as many good and caring men as there are jerks. Botton point it just depends who you choose :-P. Goodluck!
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It's called EGO and our culture. Having said that, I was lucky to find one that loved me for me and saw that true me, long before I ever did... he encouraged, loved and cherished me. I was one of the lucky ones... there's hope yet!
Why is it that women are drawn to such me? There's nothing more irritating than seeing a woman with a cockass of a boyfriend. Pretty irritating to me when all I look for is a level headed, decent woman.
i agree with you on this one. hmm.. well, technicly, not all guys are like that. but yes, mostly alot of guys out there go for the looks then comes the personality. heh. i dont really like those kind of guys.
Take it like this. Men can be really nice, you just have to look hard enough. I have been looking for the past 10 years and I finally found a guy, true, honest and he loves me for who I am. But maby thats because he is just as skinny as I am. So maby the problem lies with you. Take everyones advice and loose some weight. After that you'll see guys can be nice. Cut down on the junkfood.
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Some men do accept women for who they are and look past the physical. The reality of the situation is people have preferences as do you and if a man doesn't want to get to know the person on the inside and you have none of the physical qualities he likes then he may not be the one for you.
The reality of the situation is there are men who accept womem for who they are but everyone has prefereneces as I'm sure you do. If a man can't look past the physical and see the person within then they may not be the one for you.
April, if your experience is with men in a strip club, what do you expect to summize from that? that all men are like the ones that go where the a@@ is? consider the source, demi.
Ok, a fun game here kids! Count how many spelling errors per post...such fun! Judging from what I see and read, this must be geared for teenage angst. Boo hoo, wah!!! People are mean!!!
all men are not like that..... true beauty is found from the heart and my heart found love and i love her sooo dearly for all she is.... thank u melanie for guys who are like that, u need to keep lookin for true love cause u havent found it
Men are fucking hopeless, sad, retarded human beings. This is coming from a bitter woman who has had her share of shitty men. They have no sensitivity for others feelings or emotions, they don't care well just for the simple fact that they can, and I hope all of them go down in flames. I wish the world was all women, but then again, I love the penis.
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Most of the people that have posted comments are assholes... and should really be ashamed... I used to be a bigger (fat) girl, but i lost some weight... ive seen both sides.. and she has a good point with the question she asked, of course she may be overweight or she would have no reason to ask... duh. Regardless, it is a good question... anyone have any good answers??
You're obviously very jaded, like i was once. Most men are jerks however there are the odd few that appreciate you for who you are, inside and out, you just have to look in the right place to find them. Good luck and dont give up, he's out there somewhere xxx
In My Opinion, most men don't care. It's women who hate women. It's women who hate men. It's women who hate thier clothes, thier hair, thier weight, thier looks, thier life. It's women who hate themselves.
Men are Assholes and Pigs. I am 60 years old, twice married and divorced, and had a live in for a few years. When I kicked him out I had to buy a new couch and carpets because of the smell. The BO was so bad it would make one gag. Read the papers every day and see how many women are committing the crimes compared to the men. Shooting somebody over a parking spot is a sure sign of being an asshole. It has nothing to do with the size of a woman- men love to use that as an excuse for their crappy behavior, like they are such a prize themselves. They are bloodsucking leeches and love to try and pull women down to their low disgusting level,
There are no genuine guys out there anymore you are better dating an older man or switching teams Today its all about looks whether it be men or women we nfortunatly live in a materialistic botox world keep you head up if your man is out there he wil find you
why don't you just ACCEPT the fact that you are not appealing enough..
One of the most important factors affecting how much we like another person is that person's physical atrtractiveness..
check out the book Social Psychology(Attraction)-p.627- studies indicate 4 main 'attraction' factors are considered when selecting friends; proximity(being close), exposure(seeing the persong frequently), similarity(the same as me) and physical attractiveness(good looking=good).
ya excepts hahaa so u mean accepts so wat its tru thot girls so conscious bout wieght n all not mens but u never know nowadays hmmm wats d prob go for d one that sees wat u is inside no
women are worst, becouse they search for hapiness in men without even knowing why. they behave just like animals. stop searching hapiness in a particular gender and you will probably feel less frustrated. but as i said before, you are just an animal .
Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gem you are doesn't mean you shine any less..or because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can't be topped doesn't stop you from being the best.. Just because the right person hasn't come along to share your life doesn't mean that day isn't coming..or because no one has made this race seem worth while doesn't mean you should stop running.. Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.. Or just because you deserve the very best there is doesn't mean that life is always fair; or just because you haven't found your king, doesn't mean that you're not already a queen..Or because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now doesn't mean you need to change a thing! So Keep shining, keep running,keep hoping, keep praying and keep being exactly what you are already, which is Wonderful and complete! so remember that the man who deserves you the most is the man who thinks he doesn't.
There was this guy who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung him. The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the scorpion stung him again.
A man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him.
But the boy said: "It is the nature of the scorpion to sting. It is my nature to love. Why should I give up my nature to love just because it is the nature of the scorpion to sting?"
Don't give up loving. Don't give up your goodness. Even if people around you sting . .
Wow.. how sad is it that your point was proven with the comments left here. The sad part - it wasn't only men that left the terrible comments. That in turn proves my point. It's not one gender, it's how so many people are these days. It's a physical mentality and sadly the media has helped create a generation of cold hard people. It's very sad.
Its funny because I've seen girls that treat guys like shit also. It works both ways. I know some of the nicest people but it seems like they never have dates. And I know that they have tried but girls just reject them. whose the asshole now? It works both ways. everyone judges everyone by how they look. for me it goes personality>attraction but there are other things that should be in front of attraction but I cant help it thats the way everyone works.
it seriously doesn't matter you know. all you need is just one guy who doesn't care about your weight nor your height nor your looks but your beautiful heart.
yeah it is pretty sad.you have to be tough boned and forget any man who starts to show signs that do not benefit your growth,
everytime i thought 'i know he doesnt mean what he says and does' but in reality he is a common mental abuser who led me down a dark hole,all i have left is not much. he took all my confidence,i am a very very goodlooking woman with alot going for me. yet all i see is a useless little girl...and that is what he told me all along...
Women are just as bad. Guys bald and he gets laughed at by a woman, has a belly or is overweight gets teased about it by women. Saying ben are like that is a sexist statement since men get it just as bad as women. We just dont show that it bothers us and women do.
A girl really has to keep her guard up. Men are manipulative assholes, and will act like they are crazy about you to get you into bed, and then will hurt you every time.
Wow.... that's such a general statement to make. While i'm sure there're some jerks out there, let's not forget that not all men put their minds on the their dick.
Maybe the statement was made due to some bad experience, but that doesn't give the right to make such a general statement that blankets all the men.
ahmmm....at this time... lots of men are jerks..i don know, maybe its just that i proved that to myself... true. not all men, but most of them. haha, i've been fooled four times, by those jerks. and still i chose to be with them!.. they're jerks all right!
Oh boy i used to feel like this all the time. I found one! (HE'S MINE SO BACK OFF!!lol) I am 240 lbs, not particularly cute in any way, 5'5...I was not even LOOKING for any relationship when we connected...=) that was 4 years ago. But he still tells me I'm sexy and hot and cute and attractive...I still think he's lying, but would never dare tell him I doubt him.
Is this the blogspot for round aesthetically challenged women who can't spell? Move on, change the topic or write something. Most people stumble on your site because the mistake it for Postsecret.blogspot.com.
Maybe you have heard it a few times that there are good men out there, ur probably looking in the wrong places and even in the wrong places u can still find someone, but im also betting that ur young and i am too! but i have found a good guy who ive been with for almost a year and nothing has changed since the day we met, u just have to let time do its work once u stop looking u'll find ur someone weather its long term or short. but u know u'll have ur chance someday
TO ALL THE MEN: If you felt offended, don't insult the person who wrote it. That only proves her pessimistic opinion of men. And if you don't believe this applies to you...let it fly! (I'm a girl and I don't care how much money a guy earns, but I'm not offended by those comments because I know it's not true and that by putting every woman in the same category, those men are only hindering themselves.) This girl isn't the only girl on the Earth who has ever believed that all men are the same. There is a great woman out there that will appreciate you forever for proving her wrong. However, if this post does apply to you, I feel sorry for you. If all you're looking for is great sex, then you deserve to miss out on a wonderful girl that could truly and deeply love you.
TO ALL THE WOMEN: I know how hard it is for us sometimes. However, we have to have hope that there is someone out there waiting for each of us. The things that are truly worth having are hard to get, but they're worth fighting for. Don't settle for anything other than the best. Find someone that will love you for you, that treats you right, and don't put any more into a relationship than he is willing to give. Have hope! He's out there! There is an exception to everything you've had to put up with, and everything you've doubted.
It is true that alot of men out there are complete and total jerks and that is true also in the gay community. Everywhere you go you are going to be faced with men who dont look at you for you but what you look like and how you dress. it is just how life is.
But in all honesty, there ARE men out there who really do look for the personality of someone. NOT the looks. You just need to keep an open mind and not generalize the complete male population as assholes becuase then you are not only being sexist but denying yourself the happiness that could quite possibly come to you if you just simply wait.
In time everything does infact come together. And believe me, it will be worth the wait.
...accept, not except. ...and, not an. ...weigh, not weight.
Sure, I'm being picky about your grammar but there's a lesson in it if you'll think about it. The guy you call an asshole is a great fit for someone else and the woman we call a bitch also has a match out there. Your grammar says something about yourself and I can presume that you and I wouldn't be a fit but for some other woman, she'd appreciate my good grammar and we'd have quite a lot in common.
Balance and Compatibility are hard to find but your match is out there somewhere.
By making a sweeping generalization that "all men are assholes" because, apparently, nobody wants to go down on you or move in with you, makes you an asshole yourself. You sound like a lot of fun.
Just being real? Just being real irrational is more like it.
Well, you'll find, one day, the man who will see beyond looks. People shouldn't be so hard on themselves. Have you ever read how many comments you have of support? Carry on.
Girl! Stop throwing rocks at yourself and quit letting these so-called assholes do the same!! Learn to love yourself. You deserve it. As for all of you who have written some very mean comments to this woman....just grow-up! Don't you know that it is never ok to make fun of someone's looks? You are suppose to laugh at funny things they do..not laugh at who they are. They are who they are whether you like it or not. Even little kids have learned this important life lesson.
Cause the world looks at the outside. If your not lovin yourself enough to take care of your "outside", then why should anyone else be lovin you, too? I know... that's me.
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Not all men are jerks but mine is.... he doesn't comment on my weight because I'm kind of slim but he makes fun of other women that are fat.... crap like "can you imagine that fat ass in a bikini with all her rolls hanging out" I don't think it is funny at all... asked him how would he feel if I were a big woman and someone talked about me like that. all he had to say is that would never happen but if i was big he wouldn't like it at all.... so why is he still making jokes about big women.
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not all men are assholes. i've got an amazing guy that loves me for me. i have had my fair share of assholes so don't get me wrong. but don't lose your faith in all mankind just yet..
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Not all men are like that... I mean ok most are deffinitly like that but not all so be fair
don't be hopeless!
i found a friend who exepts me like who i am.
i want to your details about what's your problem...
I agree.But with me its not a weight thing its a looks thing.I wonder sometimes if there's any guy out there who'll except me for me.
I keep hearing how many great guys are out there, and how there is an abundance of wonderful, caring men that weill accept you. . .but I have yet to find one of my own. I feel your pain, sweetheart. Hang in there.
Likewise, why can't women accept men for who they are, and not take into account the size of their bank accounts, and earning potential.
Nothing against women, but keep in mind that if you want to stereotypicallize men, try the converse for women and you'll end up with the same result.
To conclude: Humans, in general, and stereotypically speaking, are jerks.
But you do get your nice ones every now and then :)
it seems that all men are assholes and all women are bitches. Men, no matter how nice still wind up being an ass and a female a bitch. It's not finding a nice girl or guy that is hard, it's finding a balance with them that is hard.It seems weight and looks are only important for the first couple months... then you be come comfortable no matter what. It all matters on what you are looking for and what kind of attitude you have of your self... if you feel big or ugly that shows and makes you look the way you feel.
Everyone is sterotypicalised. I agree with the whole men are jerks, and why cant they accept us for who we are, but we do it to. Everyone does it you just don admit to it, I mean i wont date guys that have certain flaws, i mean they aren't big things but still they are there, I also know guys that wont date me because of my flaws.. It is a two way situation we are stuck in.
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you sound like a disgruntled fat woman
^ point proven
Erm you probably say that cuz you re fat and uggly.I dont have any problems with guys.
it's 'accept' not 'except'. what's with people blogging in english when they don't even know english
why can't women just except men are going to use them for sex and if they don't like it then find something else.
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typical.
put everything in one pot, and mix it. sure, how intelligent *sigh*
you need to do something, you cant sit around and complain. i am 32 and only the last year I was able to find out what true love is - everything that was before, fades in the light of today.
anyway..
Be what you want to be given - and dont try to change the other, listen to feelings inside you, how you might WANT to change. for the love of the other person.
its a mental thing. Theres more weak, romantic men out there than all of you can handle. You wont find them in the cheap bars tho.
Think: WHERE would a man you are looking for, go out? quite possibly not in a disco downtown. So, why go there at all ?
you see I am convinced the relationships could be much much easier. And you will find those men you are desperately seeking - but think og the way you look for them... if you dress like a chick, you earn men who love chicks ... nothing more...
I am a full supporter of Big Girls Need Love Too. Thats my motto at least,a dn I found someone that loves me for me and not how pretty I am or how much I weigh. I hope you get to find that kind of love too.
Why don't women accept men for who they are on the inside and not by how much they earn or by the money they have?
Why can't women use better grammer when they bash an entire group? I ACCEPT people for who they are and even tolerate many who I would otherwise EXCEPT from my tiny sphere of being.
Why can't women who bash an entire group use proper grammar? I, for one, can and do ACCEPT people for themselves and only in rare instances do I EXCEPT individuals from my small, obscure portion of this sphere.
So, how fat are you anyhow?
People are jerks! This time around it was just a guy who hurt you! Next time it could be your best girlfriend! People are jerks! Hugs whope things get better.
men.. just don't get it.. beauty is where pretty ends.. and then they end up unhappy with a cheating wife.. because she married him for all the wrong reason... I just don't understand them at all!
That is sad. Unfortunately thats the way life is. UNFAIR! Deal with it.
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I have worked at a strip club and ran strip clubs for over 10 years and I must tell all women. "All men will cheat if given the opportunity."
They don't care if the girl is after them for the money. They don't care anything at all who they hurt. They just want some a$%^&!
I have been extremely heart broken in the last few weeks. So, I am very negative. Please, forgive
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you must be fat eh?
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well i dont think men are assholes.
i think men are pigs.
i always thought so.
i mean i always try to prove to women that i know that there are exceptions by trying to be one, most fo the times i do, couple of times i failed.
one of these times i failed, when i apologized i told her: well let me tell you something, i am an asshole like what, once a year? once every two years? thats a record compared to men, men are pigs!
and she said: hmm..i see your point, you are right, i forgive you!
hahaha!
:)
khalid*
get back in the kitchen bitch! and lose 10 pounds while you're at it!
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Because fat women have poor attitudes and boring life experiences. Being fat on the outside means you're slothful and fat on the inside. Men are neither of those.
-Dick, MenAreBetterThanWomen.com
your expectations are too high. Everyone has flaws including you. Everyone feels like shit if they are alone and would rather have someone to hold. That doesnt mean men are jerks, it simply means that you don't have the self-confidence to try to obtain what you want, and probably are willing to settle for any attention given, being it negative or positive. Don't accept what's easy, don't give in to idiots, know what you want, and don't stop until you find it. Self-pitying will satisfy no need, and anger will only bring bitterness. You have to be happy with yourself. If you depend on others for happiness, you get fucked every time. And if you don't like how much you wiegh, no one's going to lose the weight for you, and if you think you are ugly... well that's a tragedy.
The thing is that women do it too. The first thing people look at is how the other person looks at. I know I am guilty of that, so I guess I am a jerk.
because they have been hypnotised by the media as to what beauty is.
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why are all of you guys so hopeless life without a man or women isnt that bad it just gives you another reason to hate your self just a little more which if you think about it isnt that bad so just wait for that perfect someone to come along whenever he or she does lofe will go on
Why don't you quit your damn whining?
I found a women who is a bit overweight but a beautiful person all around and married her. I've never been happier.
I also don't miss dealing with skinny little, snotty, me-me-me-me-I'm so cute-me-me-me, girlie-girls or their brain dead friends.
Women who grow up skinny and cute are spoiled and they rarely develop much of a personality because they just don't have to. They get attention no matter how miserable or boring they are, just because of how they look.
Beyond the looks, there is rarely much there. There has to be something more of substance to deal with the other 23.5 hours of the day.
Then when they get older/heavier, they become very bitter because no one cares about what they say any longer.
My advice is to be who you are and someone will find you who appreciates you.
Hey, it's "accept," not "exept." Maybe men prefer intelligent women and you're not cutting the mustard.
Perhaps men prefer intelligent women: the kind of women who know the difference between "accept" and "except," or the subtle distinction between "weight" and "weigh."
Or perhaps men prefer women who don't whine or rant about how men are hopeless assholes. For example, Maureen Dowd is slender and attractive, but she's a ranter, and she can't get a date either. She even wrote a book about it (of course, she has the advantage of being able to write a coherent sentence).
Forget about dates and start studying grammar; maybe you can write a bestselling book, too.
It's because of the social pressure put on us for the two genders to be practically always combative. Mags like Maxim and Cosmo push this especially.
I thought the Following was appropriate
Smoke and Mirrors
by Sage Francis
I am..
More than two faced, I've got at least six with cheap tricks
To hide my not-so-pretty side while accentuating cheeks and lips
I use battin' rouge to battle crews who don't like the remix
And you just act confused by the way I choose to f**k with a
double helix
Cuddle with me quick, get befuddled and sea sick
My ugly mug'll be equipped to make it a struggle to see shit
The beat kicks, my belly feels empty I want a person there
I'll curse and swear, and act unmother-like until I persevere
Haven't been to church in years, right now that's the setting
I couldn't think of a better place to cover my face and have a
wedding
It's upsetting how plastic my mask is getting
It's melting and releasing toxic fumes
Covered by lots of perfume, never coming out of my closet of
costumes
Cartoon versions of myself get drawn out
After that occurs, time gets consumed
I'm in the dressing room with the caricatures
Until my head is cured I'm heading for pedicures and manicures
Man, if your not damn sure of whether or not
to pop the question I'll let you in on the answer..
Think of sex in a camper...
A phony life with a trophy wife, menthol cigarettes and cancer
Smoke and Mirrors
So sophisticated
So cool
I AM..
An illusion specialist turning tricks who could never diss
The one the wake up next to even if it's not the one they went
to bed with
Breakfast at Tiffany's, skip lunch, make sure the dinner table
is candle lit
I squish my feet until they crunch, but I'm unable to make these
sandals fit
I can't just sit I need to MOVE and power walk, because Oprah
said it
And I won't forget it, she does it during the opening credits
I'm so synthetic
I like the smell of coke, get it? I powder my nose
Power to hoes who pound on a hose while playing in a pound of
snow
I'm getting snow plowed, I KNOW
It's time to f**k a guy now
I just applied blush and look surprised
but it's the way I plucked my eyebrows
Time out, I'm in a tanning booth... reading Danielle Steel
And I'm planting banana peels beneath every damn man's heel
Waiting for them to fall for my sad trick I stop, drop and kneel
With a little touch of magic, I'll let David cop a feel
I'm not real, but I've got FEELINGS...
except in my nipples because of the breast implants
To have my chest enhanced I pant in dresses but never dress in
pants
A club hopping strobe light honey...addicted to wrinkle cream
Sipping on Listerine, Mr. Clean don't like the smell of nicotine
Smoke and Mirrors
So sophisticated
So cool
I AM..
Dirty
this is not the right time for you to realize that its not true. :) someday, you will.
phewwwwittt!!....not all men are jerks..98% are....they always have some excuse to cover their butts..I have been accused of having a 'man bashing' blog....anybody wanna fight?.come on in..2 blogs oke.go to
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And hello! it's not abt weight or beauty...there are fat and ugly men..wat they lack is knowing wat love truly means...hehhehehhehe.I can't wait!!
Its probably your attitude thats putting them off, rather than any appearance "defects" you think you may have. If you get some confidence and look at life in a more fun light, youll meet a guy you can be with.
Dont forget though that true love needs working on, its not always an easy ride, but its always worth it.
And to all those coming out with neanderthal comments about her being fat and ugly, maybe you should look at your self and work on your personality before you end up in a string of fruitless relationships based on sex and mindlessness.
why cant fat women learn how to spell or be grammatically correct? the world is full of questions.
aye lay off the girl already. she's not exactly looking for criticism. its what she thinks. but i agree with the whole learning english thing. so many mistakes in a short little post.
i fucking agree completely. i like this asshole, he knows i like him, i was seeing him for a couple of months... at a party last nite he dingyed me and tried to get into my BEST FRIEND. grr. fair enuf, he isnt interested anymore but does he have a "sensitivity chip missing"??? jeez oh, find some other lassie who isnt as close to me as a sister :-@ She wasnt interested in him anyway. there is some justice left in the world.
not all guys are like that though. i work with a dude whos awesome and totally nice. kind of naive though, seems really innocent.
All men are like that, we have to be models for them,thats so unfair because most of the men in the world are fat and ugly..so why do we have to be so beautiful for them?? youre so right!!
Hahahha, you must be fat....
Hmm I don't really agree with you. Although there are some men that think that way, but usually men are attracted to your personality.I don't think men really prefer EXTREMELY skinny girls. Usually girls are more critical than men as far as weight is concerned. May be it's your this attitude that putting you in this position? (Sorry don't want to be mean, but you usually attract the kind of the men that treat you the way that you put yourself out. For example, if you're extremely insecure and constantly complaining about the small defect that you have, you'll most probably end up giving in to a jerk like the one you describe :-P). First work on your confidence and then you'll realize there are as many good and caring men as there are jerks. Botton point it just depends who you choose :-P. Goodluck!
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Some men are definitely jerks, but not all of 'em... good thing i am gay... bwahahaha...
Why is it that women are drawn to such me? There's nothing more irritating than seeing a woman with a cockass of a boyfriend. Pretty irritating to me when all I look for is a level headed, decent woman.
i agree with you on this one. hmm.. well, technicly, not all guys are like that. but yes, mostly alot of guys out there go for the looks then comes the personality. heh. i dont really like those kind of guys.
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wow! with a simple entries, you cought a lot of comments. about your entries, whatever....by the way hit me back girl
why don't we all stop blaming everyone else for our unhappiness. you ultimatly have control. choose.
Take it like this. Men can be really nice, you just have to look hard enough. I have been looking for the past 10 years and I finally found a guy, true, honest and he loves me for who I am. But maby thats because he is just as skinny as I am. So maby the problem lies with you. Take everyones advice and loose some weight. After that you'll see guys can be nice. Cut down on the junkfood.
The question is - do you accept yourself for who you are?
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Some men do accept women for who they are and look past the physical. The reality of the situation is people have preferences as do you and if a man doesn't want to get to know the person on the inside and you have none of the physical qualities he likes then he may not be the one for you.
The reality of the situation is there are men who accept womem for who they are but everyone has prefereneces as I'm sure you do. If a man can't look past the physical and see the person within then they may not be the one for you.
accept*
April, if your experience is with men in a strip club, what do you expect to summize from that? that all men are like the ones that go where the a@@ is? consider the source, demi.
Ok, a fun game here kids! Count how many spelling errors per post...such fun! Judging from what I see and read, this must be geared for teenage angst. Boo hoo, wah!!! People are mean!!!
all men are not like that..... true beauty is found from the heart and my heart found love and i love her sooo dearly for all she is.... thank u melanie for guys who are like that, u need to keep lookin for true love cause u havent found it
Men are fucking hopeless, sad, retarded human beings. This is coming from a bitter woman who has had her share of shitty men. They have no sensitivity for others feelings or emotions, they don't care well just for the simple fact that they can, and I hope all of them go down in flames. I wish the world was all women, but then again, I love the penis.
HOW DID THIS ONE POST.
encourage 73 replies!
fuck the 'men are jerk' debate, how'd you get this many people here? WITH ONE. POST.
WOAH
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Most of the people that have posted comments are assholes... and should really be ashamed... I used to be a bigger (fat) girl, but i lost some weight... ive seen both sides.. and she has a good point with the question she asked, of course she may be overweight or she would have no reason to ask... duh.
Regardless, it is a good question... anyone have any good answers??
(dont be a buncha dicks! k?)
You're obviously very jaded, like i was once. Most men are jerks however there are the odd few that appreciate you for who you are, inside and out, you just have to look in the right place to find them. Good luck and dont give up, he's out there somewhere xxx
In My Opinion, most men don't care. It's women who hate women. It's women who hate men. It's women who hate thier clothes, thier hair, thier weight, thier looks, thier life. It's women who hate themselves.
You are probably not getting any...
Men are Assholes and Pigs. I am 60 years old, twice married and divorced, and had a live in for a few years. When I kicked him out I had to buy a new couch and carpets because of the smell. The BO was so bad it would make one gag. Read the papers every day and see how many women are committing the crimes compared to the men. Shooting somebody over a parking spot is a sure sign of being an asshole. It has nothing to do with the size of a woman- men love to use that as an excuse for their crappy behavior, like they are such a prize themselves. They are bloodsucking leeches and love to try and pull women down to their low disgusting level,
Because for men, sexual attraction is the most important criterion in meeting women, then personality, etc.
The term "sexual attraction" infers that we are attracted when we want to have sex with you, not discussing your feelings or food cravings.
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There are no genuine guys out there anymore you are better dating an older man or switching teams Today its all about looks whether it be men or women we nfortunatly live in a materialistic botox world keep you head up if your man is out there he wil find you
dnt lose hope!! try to work on your look and maybe lose some weight! and be sure to love the right guy!!
They do come from Mars, don't forget.
why don't you just ACCEPT the fact that you are not appealing enough..
One of the most important factors affecting how much we like another person is that person's physical atrtractiveness..
check out the book Social Psychology(Attraction)-p.627- studies indicate 4 main 'attraction' factors are considered when selecting friends; proximity(being close), exposure(seeing the persong frequently), similarity(the same as me) and physical attractiveness(good looking=good).
Girls are the same
aren't women the same way? Nobody accepts you for just being you. Would you accept you for just being a boring person?
A question : Why do women always talk behind each others back ?
ya excepts hahaa
so u mean accepts
so wat
its tru
thot girls so conscious bout wieght n all
not mens
but u never know nowadays
hmmm
wats d prob go for d one that sees wat u is inside no
women are worst, becouse they search for hapiness in men without even knowing why. they behave just like animals. stop searching hapiness in a particular gender and you will probably feel less frustrated. but as i said before, you are just an animal .
because evolution is not compassionate, and procreation has nothing to do with friendship or deep admiration.
Because evolution is not designed after compassion, and procreation has nothing to do with friendship, or deep admiration.
Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gem you are
doesn't mean you shine any less..or because no one has been smart enough
to figure out that you can't be topped
doesn't stop you from being the best..
Just because the right person hasn't
come along to share your life doesn't mean that day isn't coming..or because no one has made this race seem worth while doesn't mean you should stop running..
Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs..
Or just because you deserve the very best there is doesn't mean that life is always fair; or just because you haven't found your king, doesn't mean that you're not already a queen..Or because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now
doesn't mean you need to change a thing! So Keep shining, keep running,keep hoping, keep praying and keep being exactly what you are already, which is Wonderful and complete!
so remember that the man who deserves you the most is the man who thinks he doesn't.
there's this story where...
There was this guy who saw a scorpion floundering around in the water.
He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the scorpion stung
him. The man still tried to get the scorpion out of the water, but the
scorpion stung him again.
A man nearby told him to stop saving the scorpion that kept stinging him.
But the boy said: "It is the nature of the scorpion to sting. It is my nature
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of the scorpion to sting?"
Don't give up loving.
Don't give up your goodness.
Even if people around you sting . .
As a man, I can honestly say that most of us are like that.
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Wow.. how sad is it that your point was proven with the comments left here. The sad part - it wasn't only men that left the terrible comments. That in turn proves my point. It's not one gender, it's how so many people are these days. It's a physical mentality and sadly the media has helped create a generation of cold hard people. It's very sad.
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Its funny because I've seen girls that treat guys like shit also. It works both ways. I know some of the nicest people but it seems like they never have dates. And I know that they have tried but girls just reject them. whose the asshole now? It works both ways. everyone judges everyone by how they look. for me it goes personality>attraction but there are other things that should be in front of attraction but I cant help it thats the way everyone works.
Because they want their offspring to be successful.
it seriously doesn't matter you know. all you need is just one guy who doesn't care about your weight nor your height nor your looks but your beautiful heart.
all you need is just one.
and i'm confident that God has that one for you.
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yeah it is pretty sad.you have to be tough boned and forget any man who starts to show signs that do not benefit your growth,
everytime i thought 'i know he doesnt mean what he says and does'
but in reality he is a common mental abuser who led me down a dark hole,all i have left is not much. he took all my confidence,i am a very very goodlooking woman with alot going for me. yet all i see is a useless little girl...and that is what he told me all along...
Women are just as bad. Guys bald and he gets laughed at by a woman, has a belly or is overweight gets teased about it by women. Saying ben are like that is a sexist statement since men get it just as bad as women. We just dont show that it bothers us and women do.
hey we've all been there some day you will find that one guy that loves you for you and ever thing you are hang in there
A girl really has to keep her guard up. Men are manipulative assholes, and will act like they are crazy about you to get you into bed, and then will hurt you every time.
Wow.... that's such a general statement to make. While i'm sure there're some jerks out there, let's not forget that not all men put their minds on the their dick.
Maybe the statement was made due to some bad experience, but that doesn't give the right to make such a general statement that blankets all the men.
Be objective, be analytic, get real.
P.S: It's accept, not except
not all men r jerks..
just the ones u know XD
Well not all men... and there are girlz who values a guy's material ability more than who they really are. So kinda fair I suppose..
ahmmm....at this time... lots of men are jerks..i don know, maybe its just that i proved that to myself... true. not all men, but most of them. haha, i've been fooled four times, by those jerks. and still i chose to be with them!.. they're jerks all right!
Oh boy i used to feel like this all the time. I found one! (HE'S MINE SO BACK OFF!!lol) I am 240 lbs, not particularly cute in any way, 5'5...I was not even LOOKING for any relationship when we connected...=) that was 4 years ago.
But he still tells me I'm sexy and hot and cute and attractive...I still think he's lying, but would never dare tell him I doubt him.
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Go be a lesbian you stupi arsehole i am a guy and i definately wont like you with that attitude.... B***H.....
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Is this the blogspot for round aesthetically challenged women who can't spell?
Move on, change the topic or write something. Most people stumble on your site because the mistake it for Postsecret.blogspot.com.
At least you are lucky. Men like lucky women...
Think, weights and looks are also important. cos men do not have enough time to look inside. Men do not much beilive in inside either.
honey, in life as in high school, spelling counts.
p.s interesting choice of domain.
Maybe you have heard it a few times that there are good men out there, ur probably looking in the wrong places and even in the wrong places u can still find someone, but im also betting that ur young and i am too! but i have found a good guy who ive been with for almost a year and nothing has changed since the day we met, u just have to let time do its work once u stop looking u'll find ur someone weather its long term or short. but u know u'll have ur chance someday
everyone is different
TO ALL THE MEN:
If you felt offended, don't insult the person who wrote it. That only proves her pessimistic opinion of men. And if you don't believe this applies to you...let it fly! (I'm a girl and I don't care how much money a guy earns, but I'm not offended by those comments because I know it's not true and that by putting every woman in the same category, those men are only hindering themselves.) This girl isn't the only girl on the Earth who has ever believed that all men are the same. There is a great woman out there that will appreciate you forever for proving her wrong. However, if this post does apply to you, I feel sorry for you. If all you're looking for is great sex, then you deserve to miss out on a wonderful girl that could truly and deeply love you.
TO ALL THE WOMEN:
I know how hard it is for us sometimes. However, we have to have hope that there is someone out there waiting for each of us. The things that are truly worth having are hard to get, but they're worth fighting for. Don't settle for anything other than the best. Find someone that will love you for you, that treats you right, and don't put any more into a relationship than he is willing to give. Have hope! He's out there! There is an exception to everything you've had to put up with, and everything you've doubted.
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Not all men is like this...
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Yeh some guys are not, but some just really are insensitive at times.
hey, girls can be real bitches as well. All they care bout are the cute guys.
LOL thats quite amusing. What makes you say that? and WOW do you have a large number of comments.
Because we are jerks like that. I always heard of treating a girl right can help find a great girl but I've yet to find her.
It is true that alot of men out there are complete and total jerks and that is true also in the gay community.
Everywhere you go you are going to be faced with men who dont look at you for you but what you look like and how you dress.
it is just how life is.
But in all honesty, there ARE men out there who really do look for the personality of someone. NOT the looks.
You just need to keep an open mind and not generalize the complete male population as assholes becuase then you are not only being sexist but denying yourself the happiness that could quite possibly come to you if you just simply wait.
In time everything does infact come together.
And believe me, it will be worth the wait.
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anyhow while I'm here here's my 2 cents.
Wide is the world, many are the fish, so douse that sadness, with a bottle of madness, and go cook a tasty dish. :)
Have a nice day people.
Someday you will find the right person. Until there just think: "You are nothing less than beautiful".
It's human nature for people to judge others based on appearance, not just men.
I think everyone is beautiful in their own way, if you can get past the first impression wall that is.
...accept, not except. ...and, not an. ...weigh, not weight.
Sure, I'm being picky about your grammar but there's a lesson in it if you'll think about it. The guy you call an asshole is a great fit for someone else and the woman we call a bitch also has a match out there. Your grammar says something about yourself and I can presume that you and I wouldn't be a fit but for some other woman, she'd appreciate my good grammar and we'd have quite a lot in common.
Balance and Compatibility are hard to find but your match is out there somewhere.
Women do that too, though.
By making a sweeping generalization that "all men are assholes" because, apparently, nobody wants to go down on you or move in with you, makes you an asshole yourself. You sound like a lot of fun.
Just being real? Just being real irrational is more like it.
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accept, except means to exclude. And not all men are jerks. Not all woman are saints. Most people suck, that's why it seems hard to find anyone.
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too bad....
how can 1 think lyk dis?
Well, you'll find, one day, the man who will see beyond looks. People shouldn't be so hard on themselves. Have you ever read how many comments you have of support? Carry on.
Girl! Stop throwing rocks at yourself and quit letting these so-called assholes do the same!! Learn to love yourself. You deserve it.
As for all of you who have written some very mean comments to this woman....just grow-up!
Don't you know that it is never ok to make fun of someone's looks? You are suppose to laugh at funny things they do..not laugh at who they are. They are who they are whether you like it or not.
Even little kids have learned this important life lesson.
Cause the world looks at the outside. If your not lovin yourself enough to take care of your "outside", then why should anyone else be lovin you, too? I know... that's me.
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Not all men are jerks but mine is.... he doesn't comment on my weight because I'm kind of slim but he makes fun of other women that are fat.... crap like "can you imagine that fat ass in a bikini with all her rolls hanging out" I don't think it is funny at all... asked him how would he feel if I were a big woman and someone talked about me like that. all he had to say is that would never happen but if i was big he wouldn't like it at all.... so why is he still making jokes about big women.
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Because women are just as shallow... Gender doesn't decide mentality, Age doesn't determine maturity, Life experiences teach us to be a certain way.
not all men are assholes. i've got an amazing guy that loves me for me. i have had my fair share of assholes so don't get me wrong. but don't lose your faith in all mankind just yet..
Why can't women?
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